Five Ways Your Congregation Can Help Children & Youth
There are many simple things that congregations can do to encourage ministry that makes a difference for children and youth. Churches can become advocates for all children & youth, become more child-friendly and youth-friendly, practice Safe Sanctuaries, develop parent support activities and start new programs for children & youth.
Five Ways Brochure (PDF)
Create Child and Youth-Friendly Congregations
- Urge parents and others to bring children and youth to worship services.
- Include children and youth in worship as greeters, ushers, acolytes, liturgists and preachers.
- Put some of the church’s pictures, flyers and posters at child-height.
- Sing songs and tell stories in worship that speak to the experiences of children and youth.
- Include funding for child-youth missions and programs in the church budget.
Establish a Safe Place for Children and Youth
- Have two adults present at all times with groups of children and youth.
- Eliminate hazardous conditions in the church building.
- Set up evacuation plans and conduct periodic fire and emergency drills.
- Learn about ways to prevent physical and sexual abuse of children and youth.
- Train all teachers and youth workers in policies and procedures to protect the health and welfare of children and youth. Visit www.isafesanctuary.org for more information.
Develop Parent Support Activities
- Offer Bible study and parenting classes for parents.
- Encourage parents to read books and to watch television with their children. Encourage parents to know the media their teens consume.
- Sponsor mini-seminars on family issues (e.g.., finances, nutrition, child development, and home-work balance).
- Develop a mentoring program for parents challenged by behavioral or environmental issues (e.g., drug or alcohol abuse, gangs or domestic violence).
Become Advocates for All Children & Youth
- Collaborate with neighboring churches to address community issues.
- Recruit church volunteers to handle neighborhood projects or to work with child-serving agencies.
- Tell your elected representatives where you stand on child-family issues.
- Celebrate Children’s Sabbath each year. (Free resources available at www.childrensdefense.org.)
Start New Programs for Children & Youth
- Set up an after-school tutoring and enrichment program.
- Develop a childcare or early childhood education program for preschool and school-age children of working parents.
- Recruit grandparents to work with children as tutors, readers, mentors, etc.
- Develop a mentoring program for young adolescents.
- Initiate a one-day-a-week “children’s club” for music, art, Bible study and recreational activities.
- Compile a directory of local services and resources and distribute it to families in your congregation and community.
- Fund a scholarship program to help young people continue their education.
- Raise money to send young adolescents and teens to summer programs and camps.
- Work with hospitals, doctors and others to establish health care resources for families without health insurance.
- Develop a children’s partnership program with another church for learning, serving and playing together across racial, ethnic and economic lines.


